This is of course down to the sometimes necessary preparations gay men take before engaging in anal sex.įor obvious reasons, anal can be a messy experience if the proper preparation isn’t carried out beforehand, and that prep can be both time-consuming and uncomfortable. One of the best aspects of a sexual experience can be its spontaneity.Īn out-of-the-blue moment of passion sounds much more appealing than previously planned sexual activity.įor some gay men, however, sex can be quite regimented.